When we’re scared, we project. Projection is one of our most reliable weapons of (egoic) self-defense. It’s like a bomb: we hurl it far away from us, hoping it will detonate and wound those we perceive are harming us. But those most acutely wounded by projection are, inevitably, ourselves. Because when we project onto others […]
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There’s a fight happening in the U.S. that’s inspiring furor, fear, and division. Actually, there are several fights, all coinciding with one another, and all amounting to the same question that needs to be answered: Which reality do Americans wish to create and live in? Fear…or Love? At the Heart of the Debate Over Abortion
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One of the big themes in my recent book is that of Love vs Fear. I contend these are the only two energy states we can choose to operate from at any given time. Love gives birth to experiences such as freedom, growth, and joy. Fear promulgates feelings of anger, self-righteousness, jealousy, and a whole
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Anyone who’s been reading my work lately knows I’m obsessing over Queer Eye, the show where five gay men (technically, four gay men and one non-binary person) swoop into a struggling person’s life to shower them with love, affection, new digs, and come-to-Jesus meetings about their health, wealth, and personal choices. The latest episode I
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Love is a choice. So is Fear. Fear is getting the better of us. I see it in the news headlines every day, from the focus on the latest Covid outbreak numbers to the number of state officials trying to ban certain books from public schools and libraries. Fear is running rampant among us humans,
My Love Note to Humanity. Read More »